Ep. 48: AI dating coach Vs real dating coach: Who gives better advice?

Ep. 48: AI dating coach Vs real dating coach: Who gives better advice?

Ep. 48: AI dating coach Vs real dating coach: Who gives better advice? An email response to a client’s dating question written by AI couldn’t possibly better than a real, authentic, human response from me, could it? Eek! You be the judge. I’ll read you my client’s question, the AI...

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Ep. 47: Frustrated with online dating? Then you’re probably making this classic online dating mistake.

Ep. 47: Frustrated with online dating? Then you’re probably making this classic online dating mistake.

Ep. 47: Frustrated with online dating? Then you’re probably making this classic online dating mistake. Are you sick of men who don’t read your dating profile? Men who swipe right but don’t respond to your messages? Men who send boring opening messages? Then you might be about to blow it...

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Ep. 46: Burn the Haystack book review: Why Burn the Haystack is to dating in 2026 what The Rules was in 1996 – popular but problematic

Ep. 46: Burn the Haystack book review: Why Burn the Haystack is to dating in 2026 what The Rules was in 1996 – popular but problematic

Ep. 46: Burn the Haystack book review: Why Burn the Haystack is to dating in 2026 what The Rules was in 1996 – popular but problematic Two years and over 250,000 Facebook group members later, the Burned Haystack Dating Method is now a book called Burn the Haystack. The method...

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Ep. 45: Bethenny Frankel isn’t going to save dating - but here’s who will

Ep. 45: Bethenny Frankel isn’t going to save dating - but here’s who will

Ep. 45: Bethenny Frankel isn’t going to save dating - but here’s who will Entrepreneur, social media creator and reality TV star, Bethenny Frankel, has a new dating community called The Core. But she’s not your dating saviour. For that, you’ll need to look elsewhere. Here are the top 5 points I cover...

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Ep. 44: What to do when you have everything but the partner (and you want a partner)

Ep. 44: What to do when you have everything but the partner (and you want a partner)

Ep. 44: What to do when you have everything but the partner (and you want a partner) Men and women have more in common than you might think. And one of those things is that feeling of despair when you have everything you want in life except a partner (assuming...

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Ep. 43: When should you give up on dating? A personal story.

Ep. 43: When should you give up on dating? A personal story.

Ep. 43: When should you give up on dating? A personal story. Is there a point at which you’ve dated enough to know you’ll probably never find someone so it’s no longer worth it? This is my personal take – from someone who did over a decade of online dating....

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Ep. 42: Dating feminist men: Should you only date men who call themselves a feminist?

Ep. 42: Dating feminist men: Should you only date men who call themselves a feminist?

Ep. 42: Dating feminist men: Should you only date men who call themselves a feminist? Feminism is important. Dating men who respect women and care about women’s rights is important. But do you really need a man who self-identifies as a ‘feminist’? I’m not so sure. Here are the top...

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Ep. 41: Lying to yourself about men? It might be holding you back from finding love.

Ep. 41: Lying to yourself about men? It might be holding you back from finding love.

Ep. 41: Lying to yourself about men? It might be holding you back from finding love. Do you make sweeping generalizations about men? And have you ever stopped to ask yourself if they’re true? This is how lies and stereotypes about ‘men’ can prevent you from finding one good man....

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Ep. 40: Ready to date but not ready to be intimate? Here’s how to set the pace.

Ep. 40: Ready to date but not ready to be intimate? Here’s how to set the pace.

Ep. 40: Ready to date but not ready to be intimate? Here’s how to set the pace. Some women need more time than others to feel ready for intimacy — and that’s okay. But making a man ‘wait’ can feel risky. I’m going to teach you how to maintain this boundary without...

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Ep. 39: Why don’t men ask questions? A single woman’s guide to one-sided conversations.

Ep. 39: Why don’t men ask questions? A single woman’s guide to one-sided conversations.

Ep. 39: Why don’t men ask questions? A single woman’s guide to one-sided conversations. What to do when men don’t ask questions is one of the most common dating dilemmas women have. Here’s a five-step system for handling your next Mr No-Questions. Here are the top 5 points I cover...

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