The online dating coach who can take you from profile to partner

Hi, I’m Elly Klein, The Relationship Writer. As a writer and dating coach. I help people find love online, starting with a professionally written dating profile. I’m also the author of a humorous relationship advice book. And I have a podcast called The Relationship Writer Podcast where, each week, I answer a common dating or relationship question with clear, actionable advice. The episodes are short (under 15 minutes). I often use my own experiences as examples (I spill the beans!). And you’re always guaranteed a giggle or two (I don’t do serious or boring). If you’re not much of a listener, that’s cool. Each episode is also a blog post.

I’m my own online dating success story. After experiencing almost every online dating high and low over 11 years, 2 countries (Australia and the US) and 7 dating sites, I finally met my partner, David, at age 38 in Sydney in January 2016. We’re currently living together with plans to get married in 2019, so stay tuned! You might be interested to know David worked just as hard (if not harder) at online dating before he met me. He went on over 200 dates (yup, seriously!) in 2015 in an effort to find someone he could spend his life with. Good thing he didn’t give up at the end of the calendar year because he only had to wait another 3 weeks until I came along.

An Americanized Australian

I’m originally from Sydney, Australia, but have lived and worked in Canada (Vancouver, Whitehorse and Whistler) and, more recently, the US (New York).

I’m currently based in Sydney. But as my last three boyfriends were American, half my friends are American, and most of my clients are American, I’m somewhat of an Americanized Australian. So, don’t let the accent or time difference fool you. If you’re American or Canadian, I’m totally on your wavelength.

My qualifications

The only downside to being an online dating coach is answering the question, ‘What do you do?’ Oh, if only it were as simple as ‘I’m a lawyer’, ‘I’m a doctor’ or ‘I’m a French Bulldog breeder’. (I love Frenchies!)

Since there’s no Bachelor of Dating & Relationships with a minor in Professional Writing, people tend to be curious as to what makes me qualified to do this work. If you’re curious too, please bear with me as I toot my own horn (toot, toot)…


For starters, I’m a 2015 graduate of Love U – a comprehensive 6-month dating and relationship course by veteran dating coach, Evan Marc Katz. Check out my shiny certificate!

It was a life-changing experience for me in multiple ways: 1. It helped me into my current relationship with the love of my life, 2. It connected me to an awesome group of women from all over the world (mostly the US) with whom I’m in touch on a daily basis, and 3. It led me to the most fulfilling career I could possibly have – helping people find love with my unique mix of extensive online dating experience, in-depth education, and writing expertise.


I’ve been a professional copywriter since 2001. I hold a Bachelor of Communication (Advertising/Marketing) and topped the auspicious Australasian Writers and Art Directors Association course known as AWARD School. I worked in award-winning advertising agencies writing print, outdoor, radio, TV and online campaigns for such clients as Virgin and Nestle before going freelance. So, I can rock a dating profile!


I’m the author of the humorous relationship advice book, Men Are Like a Box of Chocolates, which received a ton of media coverage, including being selected as one of 20 Australian products to be gifted to Ellen DeGeneres for Christmas. The book uses chocolate as a metaphor for men and puts a positive spin on dating.

Online Dating Coach

Being a copywriter, author, Love U graduate, and online dating success story (finally!) makes me uniquely qualified to help people find love online. So far, I’ve been thanked at three weddings for my services.

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